When it comes to desire, it’s crucial to understand that women are not outdone – quite the contrary! There are two types of desire: spontaneous, that urge that arises suddenly and intensely, without requiring any particular stimulation, and reactive, which manifests itself in response to external stimuli such as a passionate kiss or an erotic suggestion.
YOU ARE ON!
According to Emily Nagoski, author of “Come as you are”, women don’t lack desire compared to men. Statistics reveal that 15% of women experience spontaneous desire, 30% reactive desire, and the rest combine both forms, depending on context. However, context plays a major role. If the brain can accelerate desire, it can also act as a brake, stopping arousal.
LET’S FIND OUT WHAT “TURNS OFF”!
The factors that can extinguish the flame of desire, often referred to as “turn-off” powers, are many and varied. They include lack of letting go, feelings of physical or emotional insecurity, stress, fatigue, negative thoughts, mental load, bad timing, illness, and many more. Identifying these elements is crucial to cultivating a fulfilling sexuality.
Your desire is fluid, it varies, it evolves, and that’s perfectly normal! The key is to explore what makes you “TURN ON” and “TURN OFF”. Do you understand what stimulates your desire and, just as importantly, what can put the brakes on it?
In our next article, let’s dive deeper into the aspects of feminine desire, explore ways to cultivate an emotional and physical connection, and learn how to create an environment conducive to the blossoming of sensuality. Stay tuned for an even deeper dive into exploring the fascinating world of feminine desire! 💫
